RELATIONSHIP PART 3

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RELATIONSHIP PART 3
When relationship gets to some points, one may conclude that he or she can go to any extent to sustain it. Many have lost best friends due to relationship which they thought they needed to pay the sacrifice of losing the best friend of theirs just to make the relationship work. But often , relationship does not really go as we expect. Many who we thought could be our best comfort in difficult times due to the love between us left us alone. And find out their ways without considering how hurt and broken our hearts become.When we care about someone deeply, we experience connection and the good feelings of belonging. We expect these to go on forever, but unfortunately all of human nature is not wired this way.Most first loves do break up and some later ones as well. Friends we consider to be forever move on to others who better suit their tastes. Love suffering is one of the great mysteries of the human condition; it hits the self-esteem very hard. Love gone wrong. We never get the life nor the love we expect. And we do not deserve the emotional pain of betrayal, but it happens just the same.
Learning to deal with the excruciating feelings of being left is a greater part of being a human being.Why People Leave Relationships
People leave because they fall out of love and know the relationship is not meeting their needs. Some leave because they cannot stay any longer and be true to themselves. Some can’t tolerate the conflict, mind games and continual fights. Some betray the ones around them because they need new vistas or experiences. Some become totally absorbed in new hobbies. Some run away from tried-and-true love because they need the excitement of someone new; they aren’t mentally ready to settle down to one person. Some stay and seek out others outside the relationship because that is what they grew up with- parents who couldn’t be faithful to their partner. Give thanks that you have the ability to move on.